one or both of you wearing a butt plug while you scissor.using a fist to penetrate them vaginally or anally.using your fingers to penetrate them vaginally or anally for A-spot stimulation.using your fingers to pleasure their G-spot, while grinding against their thigh.using a strap-on for vaginal or anal penetration.That means if you want it to include penetration - vaginal or anal - it can.ĭepending on your and your partner’s anatomy (and preferences), you might experiment with the below: If your partner has a vagina “A cool thing about scissoring is that you can customize it based on what’s most pleasurable to you and your partner,” says Finn. It can include penetration - but it doesn’t have to